February 9, 2010

How to Get a Copy of a Property Deed

If you are in the process of settling the estate of your former caree, or you’ve misplaced your property deed, you’ll need the know the following:

Where to get a new one: Check with the lawyer who handled the closing. (When your deed is recorded by the county, your copy is returned to either you or your attorney.) If your attorney doesn’t have the title, call the county clerk’s office, where deeds are usually recorded. You could also hire a title company to do the search for you. Look in the Yellow Pages under “Title Search.”

What you need to get it: The street address of the property. “If you want better service, also provide the tax map ID number,” says Jim McEvoy of the LandAmerica Financial Group, in New York City. There is no fee if you request the title yourself (there may be a small charge for copying); title companies usually charge around $100 to do a search.

How long it takes: The process takes about 10 business days in most cases.

February 8, 2010

How to Replace Your Passport

To obtain your first passport, complete & submit the application at your local Post Office (bring 2 passport photos and proof of identity & U.S. citizenship).  To replace your passport:

Where to get a new one: If your passport has been lost or stolen, you must appear in person at a passport-processing facility to request a replacement. The U.S. Department of State’s website, travel.state.gov, has a list of locations, plus forms and instructions (or call 877-487-2778). If your passport needs to be renewed, you can do so by mail.

What you need to get it: Proof of U.S. citizenship (such as a birth certificate), proof of identity, two passport photos, and completed application forms. See the website for additional requirements for children under 14 and expedited requests. The fee for in-person renewals is $95 for a new book, or $70 for children under 16. Renewals by mail (adults only) cost $55 (plus an execution fee of $25).

How long it takes: About four to six weeks for regular service. Two weeks for expedited service, which costs an additional $60, plus delivery. Nongovernment expediting services, such as Passport Express (passportexpress.com) and Passports and Visas.com (passportsandvisas.com) are reliable and can get your replacement in one to three days, but they charge more than $199.

February 7, 2010

How to Get a Copy of a Car Title

If you cannot locate your (or your caree’s) vehicle title and  need it to sell the vehicle, or settle his or her estate, this is what you need to know:

Where to get a new one: Your state’s Department of Motor Vehicles. (Go to dmv.org to find your state’s website to download the form or bureau locations and hours.)

What you need to get it: A completed DMV application form and the application fee, which varies by state (Utah charges $6; Oregon, $55). You’ll also need to show ID and proof that you own the car, such as your vehicle registration or your license-plate number and VIN (vehicle identification number).  If you are the executor of the estate that owns the vehicle, you’ll need to bring official paperwork showing your designation as Personal Representative.

How long it takes: As little as four days, depending on the state.

February 6, 2010

How to Get Copies of Tax Returns

If you are in the process of gathering documents for your caree or are settling an estate, you may need to obtain past tax returns.

Where to get a new one: Start with your (or your caree’s) accountant or tax preparer, who usually keeps copies of returns on file. You can also get copies of federal returns directly from the Internal Revenue Service. Visit irs.gov to download the required forms, or call 800-829-1040 to request them.

What you need to get it: Fill out and mail in IRS form 4506. The cost is $39 for each return requested.

How long it takes: It could take up to 60 days to get the returns, so plan ahead. (It is the IRS afterall!)

February 5, 2010

How to Get a New Social Security Card

There are a host of reasons you may need a copy of your or your caree’s Social Security card.  If you need to replace one, here’s the scoop:

 Where to get a new one: At your local Social Security office. (Click on socialsecurity.gov to find locations; there are about 1,300 offices around the nation.) You can also download the application form from the site. While you can mail in your request and supporting documents, there are concerns about stolen mail and identity theft.

What you need to get it: A completed one-page application, as well as one original identifying document, such as your driver’s license, passport, or marriage or divorce record. If you were born outside the United States, you may need to show proof of citizenship or lawful alien status. Photocopies are not accepted. There is no charge for replacement cards.

How long it takes: If you go to your local Social Security office in person, it could take as little as five minutes to process your request. Your card will be mailed to you within two weeks. If you can’t wait for the replacement, the Social Security Administration can give you a printout on its letterhead that verifies your number.

February 4, 2010

How to Get a Copy of a Birth Certificate

When getting your documents in order for yourself or for your caree, a valid (original) birth certificate is a must.  If it’s been lost or misplaced, you can obtain another without too much effort. 

Where to get a new one: Don’t call the hospital where the birth took place. Instead, “start with the vital statistics office in the birth state,” says Sandra Smith of the National Center for Health Statistics. Go to cdc.gov, a website run by the NCHS, to get the phone number and address of your state’s office. Or check the government pages of the phone book.

What you need to get it: As many vital statistics―name, gender, parents’ names, place of birth, and birth date―as possible. Some states also require a photo ID. Replacement fees range from $5 to $30.

How long it takes: In-person requests could yield the certificate within minutes. By mail you can expect to wait about four weeks, or two weeks if you pay an additional fee for expedited service. Some states offer overnight service, too. There may be longer waits in late summer, when parents are requesting birth certificates for children starting school.

February 3, 2010

Checklist of Important Documents

One of our readers sent in the following list.  She and her Mother worked together to compile her Mom’s important information.  This is such a useful idea (I wish I had been so organized before the passing of my parents!) that I thought I would post the checklist to share with all caregivers and adult children of aging parents:

LIST OF IMPORTANT INFORMATION

PERSONAL INFORMATION

Full Name:

SS#:

Birthdate:

License #:

Mother’s Maiden Name:

Location of Marriage License & Social Security Card:

Children/Relatives

Names and Phone Numbers:

Financial Advisor

Name:

Phone:

Address:

Location of Statements:

Social Security                                          800-772-1213               

www.socialsecurity.gov

Life Insurance Company                    Phone___            ____

Address:

Value:

Beneficiaries: (include copy with beneficiaries)

Pension(s) Company                              Phone_____            __

Address:

 Contact Person:

Location of Keys:

Car, Garage, House:

Location of Checkbook:

Location of Will/Trust:

Location of Tax Returns:

 

 

Locations of Other Valuable Papers:

 

 

 

Locations of Money in House:

 

 

 

Locations of Other Valuables:

  

Home Improvements Receipts (attach)

Appliance Receipts (attach)

BANKS

Bank Name:                                         ___Balance:                                     

Phone:

Address:

 

Checking #

Savings #

CD #

Safety Deposit Box #

 Bank Name:                                         ___Balance:                                     

Phone:

Address:

 

Checking #

Savings #

CD #

 Safety Deposit Box #

Bank Name:                                         ___Balance:                                     

Phone:

Address:

 

Checking #

Savings #

CD #

Safety Deposit Box #

MEDICAL

Dr. Name & Specialty:                                

Phone:

Address:

Notes:

 

Dr. Name & Specialty:            

Phone:

Address:

Notes:

Medical History:

 Medications:

 

 

Medication Allergies:

 

  

FUNERAL AND BURIAL ARRANGEMENTS

 

 

 

Copy and paste this into your own document so you can modify it to fit your needs.

February 2, 2010

Obtaining & Organizing Important Documents: A How-to

I sure wish I had spent the time with my Mom getting her affairs in order while she could have helped me.  The hours…days….weeks….months worth of time I could have saved!  Instead, after her passing, I struggled trying to sort through, find, organize, file for, and request documentation.  The following list is a good first step at getting your elderly loved one’s affairs in order.   Over the next several days, the ElderCaring blog will offer tips on how to obtain and organize this most important information.

Important Documents Checklist:

  • All bank accounts, account numbers and types of accounts and the location of banks.
  • Insurance Company, policy number, beneficiary as stated on the policies and type of insurance (health, life, long term care, automobile, etc).
  • Deed and titles to ALL property.
  • Loan/lien information, who holds them and if there are any death provisions.
  • Social Security and Medicare numbers.
  • Military history, affiliations and papers (including discharge papers).
  • Up-to-date Will in a safe place (inform a few family members where the Will is located).
  • Living Will or other Advanced Directive appropriate to your state of residence.
  • Durable Power of Attorney.
  • Instructions for funeral services and burial (if arrangements have been secured, name and location of funeral home).

Advanced preparation just makes everything easier — from helping with the caregiving while they are with us, to preparing the necessary estate paperwork after they leave us.  For a handy checklist, see the previous post:  http://checkincalls.wordpress.com/2009/09/24/getting-things-in-order-now-saves-much-time-later/

February 1, 2010

Prepare Your Emergency Plan Now

Disasters, natural or man-made, often come without warning. If you are preparing a plan for your family or for your caree, being organized ahead of time will let you weather the storm with less stress. 

 Know your area and what disasters are possible. If you live in a flood plain or your town is on an active fault line, you need to plan accordingly. Check http://www.ready.gov/ for what to expect in your area.

Create a basic emergency supply kit. Be sure that it includes the following: Water (have one gallon per person, per day, for three days—for drinking and sanitation); food (have a three-day supply of nonperishable items); can opener; battery-powered radio; flashlight; extra batteries; moist towelettes and garbage bags (for sanitation needs); local maps (if your preplanned evacuation route isn’t passable, you can navigate back roads, if necessary); first-aid kit; whistle (to signal for help); wrench or pliers (to turn off utilities); dust mask

Consider a few extra items, depending on your family’s needs. These might be: Food, medication, and toys for pets; infant formula and diapers; extra eyeglasses; an extra prescription slip or refill of important medications (talk to your doctor); comfortable shoes and a change of clothing for each family member; blankets or sleeping bags

Make a to-go bag. Create a small version of an emergency kit with essentials like nonperishable food, water, a small first-aid kit, and a change of clothes that you can grab in a hurry or keep in the car.

Know your evacuation routes. Have more than one option for getting out of town quickly.

Designate three family meeting spots. Pick an area near the home to meet in the event of a fire. Choose another that is in the region, in case everyone is scattered and can’t get home. Have a third that is out-of-town, should your family have to evacuate separately.

Select an out-of-town contact. Name one family member or friend who can serve as a point person if your immediate family is separated.

Make a list of phone numbers. Everyone in the family should have a list of important contacts they carry with them. Make sure you include numbers for your office, your partner’s office, your children’s schools, day care, doctors, and close family members. Include the numbers of your health and home owner’s insurance companies, as well as your policy numbers.

Write down important personal information. On the same emergency phone list, note any medical conditions you have. For your young children, record date of birth, address, and medical conditions. You can print out a template listing all of this info at ready.gov.

Know the emergency plan of your children’s schools. If your kids are evacuated from school or day care, where do they go? Where can you pick them up?

Have a family meeting. Make sure everyone knows and understands your emergency plan. Talk about meeting points, discuss fire safety, and have kids get involved in making the emergency supply kit. They may alert you to something you forgot—like the necessity of a spare security blanket.

January 31, 2010

Support Group May be Just What the Doctor Ordered

If you do take care of your body, you do stress-reduction exercises, you’ve visited your doctor, but still seem to have trouble coping with the pressures of Caregiving, joining a Caregiver Support Group may help.  Benefits include:

  • a safe place for sharing your feelings and experiences without judgement
  • a social outlet for making new friends
  • helpful information about products and services that could be of value to you
  • a place to learn coping mechanisms (saving you much trial and error)
  • a “heads-up” on what lies ahead and what to expect
  • support so that you know you are not alone
  • help in dealing with family members
  • TLC from people who truly understand your situation

To join an e-Community:  https://www.thefamilycaregiver.org/connecting_caregivers/e_communities.cfm or:  http://www.caps4caregivers.org/ .  For face-to-face groups, search the web to find one in, or close to, your home town.   According to the National Institute on Aging, Caregivers stay healthy longer and are less stressed through regular association with a support group.  No harm in giving one a try! 

January 30, 2010

Some Meds Unsafe for Elderly

As we age, our bodies process medications differently. Also, aging brings with it an increased risk of many problems such as dementia, dizziness and falling, and high blood pressure, so drugs that can cause these side effects are much riskier for people over the age of 65.

Since the early 1990s, a research team led by Mark Beers, M.D., has compiled criteria for medications that should no longer be considered safe for those over 65. This list of Inappropriate Medications for the Elderly, known informally as the “Beers List,” is a great resource if you or someone you’re caring for is over 65.

How to avoid problems: Take the Beers List to your care-receiver’s doctor and ask her to check it against all medications prescribed. Sadly, a recent Beers survey found that among those over 65, more than 16 percent had recently filled prescriptions for two or more drugs on the Beers list, suggesting that many doctors are still uninformed about the risks of these drugs. If you discover that you or a family member over 65 is taking medications that are considered risky, you may need to be proactive and ask the doctor to find alternatives.

Here’s a link to the Beers List of Potentially Inappropriate Medications for the Elderly:  http://www.dcri.duke.edu/ccge/curtis/beers.html

January 29, 2010

Self-Massage is Easy and Beneficial

In a few minutes time, you can release tension and stress your body is holding by giving yourself a mini-massage. Massage improves circulation, relaxes muscles, aids digestion and fosters better range of motion. These direct benefits, combined with the psychological benefits, quickly produce a feeling of well-being.

How to Self-Massage
You can easily learn to massage yourself. You do not need to undress, just get comfortable. Use massage oil if you are massaging bare skin. Sit in a chair or on the floor, or lie down with your knees bent and your feet on the floor.

Shoulders
1. Stroke your right shoulder with your left hand. Starting at the base of your skull, stroke down the side of your neck, over your shoulder and down your arm to the elbow. Glide back to your neck and repeat at least three times. Then do the other side.

2. Make circular pressures with your fingertips on either side of the spine. Work up the neck and around the base of the skull. Then squeeze and release the flesh on each shoulder and at the top of your arms.

3. Loosely clench your left hand into a fist and gently pound your right shoulder. Keep your wrist flexible. This can be very invigorating if you are tired. Repeat on the other side.

Feet
1. Put one hand on the top of your foot and the other under the sole. Stroke smoothly from your toes to your ankles. Glide your hands back to your toes and repeat.

2. Support your foot with one hand and work on each toe individually. Squeeze each toe firmly, and gently stretch with a gentle pull.

3. With one thumb on top of the other, do a line of firm pressures down the center of the sole and lines on either side. Then, with one thumb, do circular pressures on the arch and ball.

4. Support your foot with one hand and make the other into a loose fist. Do knuckling movements all over the sole by rippling your fingers around in small circular movements.

Hands
1. Stroke the back of your hand, pushing firmly up toward the wrist and gliding back gently. Then squeeze the hand all over, pressing it between your palm and your fingers.

2. Squeeze each finger and make circular pressures over the joints with your thumb. Then hold the finger at its base and pull it gently to stretch it, sliding your grip up the finger and off the tip.

3. Stroke between the tendons on the back of the hand with your thumb. Stroke in the furrow to the wrists, doing four strokes in each furrow.

Abdomen
1. This massage is particularly helpful for menstrual pain. Start by stroking clockwise around your abdomen with one hand following the other in a circle, using the whole surface of your hands.

2. Knead all over your abdomen with your fingers and thumbs. Then roll onto your side to knead your hips and bottom. Turn onto your back and stroke around your abdomen again.

Self-massage can help you become more energized in the morning or help you unwind in the evening. It doesn’t take a lot of time and it does deliver a lot of relief.

Source: http://www.livestrong.com/article/12454-do-selfmassage-/

January 28, 2010

Discounts Galore for You and Your Caree

Want to do something new and fun with your loved one or caree?  Like to find good deals?  In my local paper, I found a web-based service that lists over 150,000 businesses offering those who are 50 and older breaks on a wide variety of products and services like restaurants, travel, recreation, local transportation, shopping, state and national parks, medical servies, pharmacies and museums.  SeniorDiscounts.com charges an annual fee of $8 to find discounts by the location or category you are interested in.

For free searches and discounts, you can check out SeasonedSpender.com and Bargains4Seniors.com. Also, I use Restaurant.com where you can purchase discounted coupons for use at local restaurants. Go on, try something that sounds fun and save a few bucks too!

January 27, 2010

Best Exercises for Reducing Stress

With the abundance of health benefits, it’s clear that if you’re able to exercise, you should exercise! The trick is finding the right form of exercise. The following are all excellent for stress relief and each has its own special benefits as well.
• Yoga: It’s great for physical health and flexibility, and it can also help you get into a meditative state.
• Karate: It can help you develop self-discipline, become part of a community, release frustration and tension, and even feel safer as you’ll be better able to defend yourself in the event of an attack.
• Swimming: Combining the soothing properties of water and the benefits of exercise, swimming is a great way to get in shape, cool off, and feel great.
• Walking: Just about anyone can do this one, and it can conform to your schedule: You can take a walk on your lunch break, walk in the morning before your shower, walk your dog in the evening, etc. Walking and talking with a friend makes it feel less like exercise (for me, at least); but walking by yourself can allow you to work out problems in your head or just zone out for a while.

If you’re not sure how you can work regular exercise into your schedule, you may be interested in this article about exercise for busy people: http://exercise.about.com/od/fittinginexercise/a/notimeforexerci.htm.
If you’re looking for more detail on the benefits of these great stress-reducing exercises before choosing one to try:
Yoga:             http://www.healthandyoga.com/html/yoga/Benefits.html
Karate:          http://everything2.com/title/Benefits+of+Martial+Arts+training
Swimming:  http://swimming.about.com/od/swimworkouts/a/swim_benefit.htm
Walking:       http://www.aarp.org/health/fitness/walking/a2004-06-17-walking-numerousbenefits.html

Reading about the benefits is good. But, to start reaping the benefits you need to, “Just Do It!”

January 26, 2010

9 Secrets of Motivated People

As we approach February, let’s reflect on the resolutions we set at the beginning of the month. Staying motivated―and achieving what you set out to do on that bright New Year’s Day―is surprisingly possible. Just follow these nine recommendations, provided by researchers who study motivation and backed up by women who have used them to realize their biggest ambitions.

1. When you make a plan, anticipate bumps. Before even trying to achieve a goal, target potential pitfalls and troubleshoot them. Peter Gollwitzer, a professor of psychology at New York University, in New York City, says that people who plan for obstacles are more likely to stick with projects than those who don’t.

2. Channel the little engine that couldreally. A person’s drive is often based on what she believes about her abilities, not on how objectively talented she is, according to research by Albert Bandura, a professor of psychology at Stanford University. His work has shown that people who have perceived self-efficacy (that is, the belief that they can accomplish what they set out to do) perform better than those who don’t.

3. Don’t let your goals run wild… When your sights are too ambitious, they can backfire, burn you out, and actually become demotivating. Instead of aiming unrealistically high (such as trying to save enough money for a down payment on a home in six months), set goals that are a stretch but not an overreach (come up with a doable savings plan for your budget).

…But work on them everyday. Taking small steps every day will not only help hold your interest in what you’re trying to achieve but will also ensure that you move slowly, but surely, toward your goal. So, for example, set up a down-payment-fund jar and dump your change into it every night. You’ll get a sense of accomplishment each day, to boot.

4. Go public with it. Instead of keeping your intentions to yourself, make them known to many. “Other people can help reinforce your behavior,” says James Fowler, a political scientist who studies social networks at the University of California, San Diego. After all, it’s harder to abandon a dream when you know that people are tracking your progress.

5. Lean on a support crew when struggling. Think of the friends and family who truly want to see you succeed. Enlisting those with whom you have authentic relationships is key when your motivation begins to wane. Choose people who may have seen you fail in the past and who know how much success means to you.

6. Make yourself a priority. Put your needs first, even when it feels utterly selfish. You will derail your progress if you sacrifice yourself for others in order to please them (such as eating a cupcake that a coworker baked even though you’re on a diet). This one is especially important for caregivers!

7. Challenge yourselfand change things up. It’s hard to remain enthusiastic when everything stays the same, says Frank Busch, who has coached three Olympic swimming teams. To keep his athletes motivated, he constantly challenges and surprises them―adding a new exercise to a weight routine or giving them a break from one practice so they can recharge.

8. Keep on learning. To refuel your efforts, focus on enjoying the process of getting to the goal, rather than just eyeing the finish line.

9. Remember the deeper meaning. You’re more likely to realize a goal when it has true personal significance to you.  And when the process isn’t a pleasant one, it helps to recall that personal meaning.

Source:   Lesley Alderman, Real Simple Magazine

January 25, 2010

Clean out Your Toxic Household Cleaners

Ever read the back of a bottle of cleaner? Between the multi-syllabic chemicals you can’t pronounce and the warnings to keep children and pets away from them, it’s no wonder many people wind up in the emergency room when they ignore those warnings. One of the most dangerous mistakes you can make? Accidentally mixing ammonia (found in window cleaner) with chlorine bleach (found in all types of cleaners). The result is chlorine gas, which was an agent of chemical warfare in World War 1.

Ditch the toxic chemicals lurking under your kitchen cabinet, on the shelf in your bathroom and out in the garage. Then mix your own cleaner that will kill bacteria and leave your surfaces shining.

Home Made Cleaner:  1 T of Borax powder (find it in the laundry aisle of your supermarket), 3 T of white vinegar, 2 cups of water, 1 T of dish soap, 1 drop of essential oil such as peppermint for fragrance (optional).  Pour it into a spray bottle from the hardware store, give it a shake, and you are ready to clean. For windows, use white vinegar wiped down with newspapers, and to disinfect toys and other kids’ products fill a spray bottle with non-chlorine bleach (3% hydrogen peroxide) and wipe with a paper towel.

Bonus: Cleaning out harsh chemicals is not only better for your health, it’s good for the environment, because you drastically cut back on your plastic use by eliminating all those bottles of mildew cleaner, window washer, bathtub scrub, and more.

Source:  Dr. Oz’s Live Better newsletter

January 24, 2010

Dr. Oz’s Says Keep Your Spleen Clean

It may be the organ you thought you didn’t need but, according to Dr. Oz, the spleen is vital to your immunity.

 Tips to keep your spleen healthy:

  1. If you have pain in your upper left quadrant (where the spleen is located) have it checked out.
  2. Wear a seat belt to prevent splenic injuries during car accidents.
  3. Eat dark chocolate. The flavonoids boost the immune system and help the spleen respond to infections in your body.
  4. Include foods rich in vitamin B6, like potatoes to keep your spleen and immune system healthy.

 

Source:  Dr. Oz’s Live Better newsletter

January 23, 2010

Why Limiting High-Fructose Corn Syrup is Wise

So it’s no big revelation that you need to steer clear of sugary foods — cakes, cookies, pastry, regular soda — when you’re trying to lose weight. The thing is, that’s easier said than done because a little food additive called high-fructose corn syrup lurks in loads of products you’d never even think about because they’re not terribly sweet! Things like ketchup, mustard, barbecue sauce, breakfast bars, jellies, yogurt, peanut butters. Even fat-free or low-fat foods, like the very salad dressing that you thought was helping you stick to your diet by eating more veggies may actually be sabotaging your weight loss efforts.

“Most anything with a sweetener in it that’s preserved has high fructose corn syrup in it, because [regular] sugar won’t preserve,” said Dr. Mehmet Oz, host of The Dr. Oz Show and co-author of the recently re-released “YOU: On A Diet.” “It’s ubiquitous.”

Indeed, a full 50 percent of all the sugar we consume comes from HFCS in processed foods. In as little as 70 years — basically within a single generation — Americans have gone from eating no HFCS to eating more than 63 pounds of it (about 128,000 calories) each year. “It was so inexpensive and had such a long shelf life, it became a very efficient and inexpensive way to sweeten food, and began to be added to all foods,” noted Dr. Oz. Why does this matter?  “It’s very difficult not to correlate the increase in HFCS over the last 50 years directly to the increase of obesity,” says Dr. Oz. “It’s not only the only reason we have an obesity problem, but it’s one of the top reasons.” Here’s why:

• Your brain doesn’t recognize the fructose in HFCS as regular food, so you can eat a lot of it and still be hungry, which means you eat even more. Our bodies have a nifty feedback mechanism — a protein called leptin, which is released by our body’s own fat — that turns off our hunger signals, letting us know that we’re satisfied and can step away from the buffet. But when we consume fructose in foods or drinks containing high fructose corn syrup, that feedback mechanism gets disrupted. So we don’t we get the message that we’re full, AND because the brain doesn’t recognize this stuff as real food, it still wants us to eat.

• Sugar also sets us up for some wild swings in blood sugar highs and lows that make us crave — you guessed it! — more sugar, which in turn prompts the body to store more fat. Indeed, when people who are even slightly overweight — in other words, most of us — eat sugar, we store a whopping 35 percent of it as fat. All sugar does this, not just HFCS. But unlike regular sugar, HFCS is cheap and shelf-stable so it’s everywhere.

• The fructose in HFCS also seems to overwhelm your liver’s ability to process it. “The liver doesn’t particularly like it when there’s fructose in there,” Dr. Oz said. “It’s irritating and the liver responds by producing inflammatory compounds.” Among other things, like laying the groundwork for artery damage and heart disease, these compounds also encourage your body to store more fat. “You’re literally turning the major organ responsible for detoxifying you into fat, which is hindering your ability to get thin,” he said. “Fat people have a tougher time getting thin than thin people have staying thin. The odds are stacked against them because their livers can’t keep up.”

The obvious solution is to limit your consumption of HFCS – no small task to be sure. Dr. Oz suggests four ways to get started:

Limit processed foods. “If you eat whole foods, real foods, foods that don’t come in colorful packages, that come out of the ground looking the way they look when you eat them, they won’t sabotage your natural ability to regulate your weight,” Dr. Oz said.

Read your labels. If HFCS is one of the first five ingredients in a particular product (or there’s more than 4 grams of sugar per serving), skip it. “Natural versions of condiments don’t have HFCS; but the inexpensive, more customarily eaten versions usually do,” he said.

Try natural sweeteners. Raw honey, agave syrup, or stevia (a powdery natural sweetener that you can use like regular sugar), are good options. “Natural sugar in natural form is the best way to get it,” said Dr. Oz.

If you drink soda, switch to 100 percent fruit juice. Even though juice has sugar, it at least offers valuable nutrients. Or better yet, opt for water. If plain water is too boring, add some fizzy seltzer and a squeeze of lemon or lime. Or try no-calorie flavored waters.

Source:  AOL, “that’s fit,” Jan. 2010

January 22, 2010

First, Take Care of the Caregiver

The lioness is a good example of how Caregivers need to think.  She is the first to feed after the hunt, then the cubs and the lion.  Those who give care must, first, take care of themselves.  Do you recognize any of these warning signs of caregiver stress?

  • Denial
  • Anger
  • Social Withdrawal
  • Exhaustion
  • Sleeplessness
  • Irritability
  • Lack of Concentration
  • Health Problems

If you have several of these symptoms on a regular basis, see your health care provider.  Your caree’s chronic condition can cause you emotional and physical stress.  Counseling, training, and support groups help families learn how to better cope.  They can help you learn and practice skills and build social resources.  Social support may even help you stay healthy.  Check out the Helpful Resources tab of this ElderCaring blog as a starting point.

January 21, 2010

What to Know to Avoid Drug Interactions

Taking these steps will help you avoid taking medications that should not be combined:

  • Gather all of your current medicines.  Show them to your doctor or pharmacist.  He or she can check for any expired meds and potential interactions.
  • Tell your doctor and pharmacist about non-prescription medicines, herbs, vitamins, and supplements you use.
  • Keep a list of all your medications with you.
  • If you notice any  new symptom, ask your doctor right away if it might be related to any medicine you are taking.